Sunday, May 23, 2010
All Is Ok Here
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Boston, D.C., and Home to Kabul
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Jet Lagged & Getting Lost in Boston
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Back in the U.S.
- Mark Boone Junior - Robert "Bobby Elvis" Munson
- Dayton Callie - Chief Unser
- Kim Coates - "Alex 'Tig' Trager
- Theo Rossi - Juan Carlos "Juice" Ortiz
- Mark Boone - who plays Robert "Bobby" Munson on the show
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Whew......
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Adventures At Home Now Back To Kabul
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Back in DC Safe and Not Too Sound
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Just Over A Week
Friday, November 27, 2009
A Long Semester - 3 Weeks and 2 Days Left
Monday, November 9, 2009
One Year Today
Thursday, October 29, 2009
All Is Well
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Deported!
Monday, October 12, 2009
What Have I Been Saying ........
Civilian Goals Largely Unmet in Afghanistan
By ELISABETH BUMILLER and MARK LANDLER
Published: October 12, 2009
Obama administration officials say the U.S. is falling far short of the president’s goals to fight corruption, create a functioning government and train a police force.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/12/world/asia/12civil.html
A Very Interesting Story On Weddings
A memory of happiness – but at a high cost
Posted on 12 October 2009 by JDanish
By Jamil Dnish
October 2009 – Jawad Kohistani is sitting on a red sofa, looking pale and anxious, sipping a cup of green tea to steady his nerves.
The hotel manager is counting the number of guests Jawad plans on inviting to his wedding next week. He’s stamping every single invitation card Jawad has provided.
Photo by Freshta Dunya
But Jawad has a problem: he has no way to limit the number of guests. He wants to invite everyone and he’s very concerned about the expenses for 500 guests. “What discount will you give me for the 500 guests I have invited,” asked Jawad. The hotel manager tries to explain that he can only provide 10 free tickets per 100 guests. “I also would like you stamp some 20 blank invitation cards in case we have forgotten some guests,” said Jawad. In total, Jawad expects almost 600 guests to come to his wedding party, which will cost him $3,000 alone for the food and.
In Afghanistan, one of the poorest countries in the world, bridegrooms are expected to pay not only for their weddings, but also for all the related expenses, including big pre-wedding ceremonies. Shafi, who is a university student, is having his wedding bill picked up by his father. The total cost will exceed $20,000 which includes decorations, flowers, clothes and car hire.”
Competition among families raises the cost of weddings,” said Shafi. Shafi’s wedding will take place at the Oranoos wedding hall in Kabul, in two vast banquet rooms, one for the men and the other for the women. Afghan custom dictates that men and women are separated at weddings.
The big day is one of great activity for the family and involves a gathering of all the relatives, distant cousins and friends. The menu features 15 dishes including kebabs grilled on skewers, fish, chicken, meatballs, lamb, stewed vegetables and normally three kinds of rice, kaboli palaw, orange palaw and plain palaw all cooked with meat and served with at least two kinds of fresh fruit. (Can you make this last sentence more succinct?)
The host tries to put as much as food on the table as possible as part of the wedding tradition, even though the majority of the food usually ends up in the trash (American English). Half of the cost of every wedding goes into the hiring wedding of halls and catering.
Wedding halls are making a small fortune every week. “Aros Shahr” or the City Bride Wedding Hall in Kabul, which is actually one of the less popular wedding halls, holds a wedding every day. The actual cost of each wedding is determined by the number of guests and the type of menu. “It depends on the host of the ceremony. It can cost you from 150,000 Afg ($ 3,000) to 500,000 Afg ($ 10,000) just for the food,” explained Fahim Hakimi, the manager of the City Bride Wedding Hall. “On average a wedding hall in Kabul is making up to $ 20,000 a week,” Fahim admitted.
But since the Taliban regime was ousted in 2001, the Afghan wedding industry has sprung up and is now bigger than ever. The average guest list for a wedding ceremony often reaches 700 people and you can expect some 200 gate-crashers on top of that. The biggest weddings can exceed 2,000 people in number. The wedding halls in Kabul, most of them built in the last six years, stand out in the city with their mirrored green and blue glass and blinking decorated lights towering over the city’s dusty streets. The indoor halls feature mirrored walls and on the outside the neon lighting is powered by generators because there’s no guarantee of electricity in Kabul most of the time.
“The number of registered wedding halls in Kabul alone has reached 68 and that’s growing,” said Haji Abdul Salam the head of hotels at Kabul Municipality. That is seven times the number of wedding halls that there were in 2001. The names of the halls usually offer an idea of romance and glamour which can be more hopeful than realistic: An Evening in Paris Wedding Hall, the Aria Seven Stars Wedding Hall, the City Bride Wedding Hall, the Unique Palace and others.
Bridegrooms and their families end up organizing huge wedding ceremonies and then place themselves in huge debt for years afterwards.
As a day laborer Jawad makes about US$ 250 a month, but he’s already spent US$ 5,000; that excludes the expense of feeding another 550 guests on the wedding day which will inflate the price to US$ 9,000. He claims to have borrowed more than half of the total amount.
“My relatives, friends and family members have lent me money so I have to pay every single penny back,” Jawad said.
Asked how it felt to hand over the equivalent of 36 times his monthly salary, he replied: “The payment allowed the marriage to happen. Only a memory is left, a memory of happiness,” he exclaimed.
Saturday, October 3, 2009
The Funk
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
BANGKOK
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Eid ul-Fitr
Ramadan has been an interesting thing for me. School schedules were adjusted to allow for Iftar breaks so students could break their fast. Also Ramadan is such a big deal that folks do not do much of anything including activities on campus. So it was a huge adjustment in what is normally a busy month for college Student Affairs folks. A true learning experience.
So I have a few days off. What am I going to do? Well, since it is our only chance to do so until Thanksgiving at the earliest, I decided to get out of Kabul. Where to go? My initial thought was just get to Dubai and hang there, eat Western food, and all that good stuff. Well Eid ul-Fitr translates from Arabic a Festivity of Breaking a Fast so festivities abound all around the Islamic world. That translates into also the time that the hotel rates go from the HOT summer rates back to the "normal" rates. So to stay in Dubai is a bit on the expensive side. So I thought what to do? I could pay about $400 in hotels and just roam Dubai again or I could take advantage and go somewhere else. I decided what I was really in the mood for was some get out of the Muslim world, let my hair down, and go somewhere with a nightlife. So once again, where to go? I happened to click on one of the offers from one of the major airlines out of Dubai and there it was. A city with a world renowned night life; BANGKOK. Wouldn't you know as well, Bangkok, Thailand is on my bucket list of places to visit. The cost including roundtrip airfare and hotel for 3 nights was not much over the cost of the hotel for the same period in Dubai. It took a bit of thinking but I did it.
Well there is a catch to every deal. Right? I did not really notice it when I hit "Book It" on Expedia.com but the catch to this one was a layover in Doha, Qatar. A 7.5 hour overnight layover. So here I sit at 3:30 a.m. with four more hours to kill in the Doha airport. Oh well, I will arrive in Bangkok tomorrow evening their time groggy from the road but a good night's sleep and I will have two full days of Bangkok fun. Although this layover sucks to say the least, in the end I think it will be worth it.
Oh, and the trip started off well. Pamir Airlines out of Kabul was doing a "lottery" of boarding passes. Me never being the lucky one just through mine in and put my headphones back on. I saw them give away a few lower prizes but when it came time for the grand prize of $180 I did not even see them draw. Then the flight attendant tapped me on the shoulder to make sure the name on the boarding pass was mine. Surprise, I won the big prize. WOW, what a way to start a trip!
Monday, August 31, 2009
Support The Effort In Afghanistan
Monday, August 24, 2009
L'Atmosphere
(One Of My Photos From A Night Out At L'Atmo)
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Election Week Lockdown
If you have read about all the turmoil, though, you would know it was for a good reason as do I. 73 attacks across Afghanistan during election and some big ones even here in Kabul leading up to the elections. Therefore, I cannot fault our security for being extra cautions. We even had two extra guards at the house and a driver with car in case we had to make a hasty exit. I do fault these violent extremists though. If it were not for them we would not have been locked down.
In the end all was ok. We were not even close enough to hear any of the stuff going on in the city. Realistically there is a mountain between us and the city so we are sort of sepperated. In many cities in the U.S., technically we would be a suburb of Kabul as we are about 10 miles from the city's center. However, Kabul is the name of the city proper and within that city are different areas. We happen to be in one of the furthest from the center of town. So we are all safe and sound and glad like you would not believe that this 5 day period is over.
Monday, August 10, 2009
If Only Life Would Slow Down A Bit
9 months in and thus far my eldest daughter and her husband are expecting a daughter to be delivered in October. Big news, yes I feel old, but the hardest part is I am not there. My son has been diagnosed with ADHD. Common among children today, yes, but I am not there. My youngest daughter is struggling with coming into adulthood, where life will lead her, not to mention struggling with the fact that she lives in small town, Hicksville, USA. Now, these things would happen regardless. In the U.S., though, at least I would be a phone call away and I could at least hear properly. Now I have to communicate via email, deal with the time delays, and have to try to figure out the words instead of "hearing." We all know how that can be and how tough it is to read everything that needs to be read into an email but not to read too much. Not to mention the impersonal nature of such communication.
It is not as if I ever thought the world revolved around me but it is hard to prepare yourself for your own world to continue to evolve. It is eye opening, in fact, because of the stark realization that it will happen regardless of whether you are there or not and that you are forced to deal with it via email.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Professor? Shaw
Just think, one month and 5 days and I am over 1/2 way done with my 18 month contract. It is hard to believe really. Seems like just yesterday I was announcing to my friends and family that I was headed to Afghanistan for an 18 month hump. Soon it will be time to think about contract negotiations. Some have asked me if I will renew. As I have said who knows at this point. It is too early to really say. Several factors among the many will come to play. The first of which is security in Afghanistan. The second is financial/job security. The third being mental state of mind. Any of those could go down the tubes, who know. Regardless, come January it will be time to throw my hat in the ring and start looking around. By then I hope that the economy has bounced back at least enough for hiring freezes at colleges and universities to be lifted. Come tough financial times often folks look to better themselves by getting of completing a degree and therefore enrollment usually goes up. January will be the perfect time to ride that wave.
Enough for now....time to get back to work.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
5.5 Weeks Over In A Flash
New Ink
What to do in Miami, right? Well one thing I have always wanted to do, being a fan of the reality show by the same name, is to get some ink done at Miami Ink. What did I get? For some time I have been thinking of getting some ink to commemorate my time in Afghanistan. I decided long ago that I did not want anything cheesy. Well after many weeks of thought, I decided that I would do so by putting something celebrating an Afghan art form that has survived centuries. This art form is Nooristani woodworking. It is very intricate wood carving that has survived all of the conflict that has fallen on Afghanistan and still survives today.
Bike Ride To Key West
While in Miami, I decided it was time to scratch something off my bucket list that has been there for a long, long time. A trip to Key West and one a bike to boot. So taking advantage of the Harley Owners Group Fly and Ride Program I rented a bike at Peterson's Harley-Davidson. It was actually pretty reasonable and not MUCH more than a car rental for a 4 day period. Before reserving it, which I had to do 6 weeks in advance, I was forced to make a choice on what model I wanted to rent as all the cruisers are about the same price. It did not take much thought though as I had been wanting to try out a large cruiser for some time. I decided on the Ultra Classic, or as we biker types call it the "Ultra Couch" which comes complete with cruise control, fairing, and stereo sound system. We hooked up the Ipod and were set for a great trip.
From Peterson's we connected down the interstate on the Southernmost portion of historic US Route 1 riding through all the Florida Keys to the Southernmost point in the U.S. The ride was very comfortable other than two factors. One, I discovered rather quickly upon arrival in the U.S. and Miami, in particular that I had acclimated to Kabul over the past 6 months. What that means is that I was used to a more dry environment that humid Florida. Was I ever hot and sweating there. The second, over the past 6 months of not riding a bike my body was not used to it at first. From my legs, my back, and more particularly my back side I was hurting after a full day's ride. I was really glad we stayed a couple days in Key West as I needed the time to recover.
Key West was everything I hoped it to be. I was afraid that the big hotel conglomerates would have come in and turned it into an Ocean City, Virginia Beach, Myrtle Beach, or the like. However, they have been shut out by the locals and thus they have succeeded in keeping Key West a small and intimate place. It still survives largely on the tourist trade but it is pleasantly small and cozy still. It was well worth the trip.
From Key West we cruised back up to Miami and this time to historic South Beach. Once again it was HOT. Not too bad in the morning but by the time we reached Miami the added heat coming from the concrete and steel was almost unbearable, especially in stop and go traffic. But we arrived in South Beach just in time for a literal monsoon. I was told at Miami Ink earlier in the week that this really was not a high tourist time as it was the beginning of Hurricane Season and thus was a wet period. They said it rained almost every afternoon and rained hard. However, they did not tell me about monsoons. They are not the norm though as this one was even featured on the news that evening. Luckily we arrived at the hotel just as it was starting to rain. It rained and it rained and it rained some more. Almost 3 hours of solid POURING rain. At one point I looked out at the bike and the water curbside was over the sidewalk and halfway up the back tire, over the tail pipe, and just at the bottom of the engine block. The streets in South Beach were not designed to withstand that much rain and as they filled the sidewalks became rivers with merchants fighting the flood waters. After 3 hours it slowed then after 4 it stopped and the skies started clearing almost as quickly as it all had started. In its wake it left very flooded streets complete with debris. This made getting around in South Beach on a bike treacherous to say the least. When I finally was able to find a road I could traverse I did so carefully and in calf high water. A real biker does not ride with his feet down for more than a foot or two but in those conditions one must just in case the water suddenly deepens and the back wheel starts to wash which felt like it happened a couple of times as the water reached mid calf or so.
From Miami it was back home to D.C. and back home to my baby, my bike. The goal for my time in D.C. was to chill and to get some ride time in. While I did not get as many miles under my belt. for whatever reasons, I did get some chill time. Caught up with a few old friends and just enjoyed the vacation. After all I did not want to return to Kabul in need of a vacation from my vacation. I succeed in that respect 100 percent. Slap in the middle, I did have a 40 hour, 4 day work week with our board of trustees meetings but other than that all I did was chillax.
Thanks to a bunch of my online photography friends that had scheduled a meet and greet near Baltimore I was even able to get some shoot time in. I rode my bike up to it and believe or not I had never shot using my bike. I have shot on other bikes but never my own.
I was able to catch Aerosmith and ZZ Top in concert which was an unexpected treat as well. Not my typical quality concert shots but they will do. Not bad for shots from the cheap seats I must say.
From Dubai the trip went even further uphill as they moved the flight up an hour so it was rush rush through the airport. Then when I got to Kabul I was pleasantly surprised that they had opened the new terminal but must say service has gone to pot. It took an hour to get the luggage to the carousels and the parking is still at the same old place so it was a mile or so to the vehicle with some heavy luggage. But I made it and I am in Kabul now. Time to go back to work uggh.